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 August 7, 2022

Discipline

Discipline

by David Adegboyega / Saturday, 26 September 2020 / Published in Sound Character Weekly

It’s a Journey

One of the reasons for life and living is to have a goal, a purpose or an assignment you are working towards. More often than not, when the goal is achieved, right within that achievement, you see another goal to be achieved so you can get to the ultimate definition of your life. What keeps you going on the journey to fulfilment is discipline, which determines your actions or inactions. Our academic courses are also know as disciplines because they contain instructions to tailor us in a defined profession.

What keeps you going on the journey to fulfilment is discipline, which determines your actions or inactions.

David Adegboyega

To be disciplined, therefore, is to have one’s goal clearly in focus and pursued with determination and meticulousness. As parents, one of our most important assignments is to raise disciplined children. One of the ways to achieve this is by being deliberate in painting to your children a picture of what they should aspire unto. This is the best way to achieve discipline in children because that clear picture of their future makes discipline flow from their inside.

As parents, one of our most important assignments is to raise disciplined children.

David Adegboyega

Discipline is best Inside-Out

Discipline is better inside-out, than outside in. Outside in could be through punishment or correction; which should be done in a manner to get the child to let discipline flow from their inside. Your goal is to raise children who have imbibed sound character strengths early in life because it makes discipline flow from inside out. Children learn by pictures; in fact, we all never stop learning by pictures because words are pictures.

Therefore, one of the early pictures to paint to our children is that of godly character. They must see themselves in that picture. Of course, this places a demand on parents to be that picture of discipline and excellence. We must have an excellent mind and let this reflect in what we say and do. We must not let our words and actions be conditioned by the needs-driven world we live in. We must comport ourselves in ways that distills discipline to everyone around us. A needs-driven mindset is not patient, it wants whatever it wants now. Products of discipline are not instant; we must raise a citizenry that can wait and give the required discipline to achieve worthwhile goals.

One of the early pictures to paint to our children is that of godly character.

David Adegboyega

What our Nation will be like with Discipline

Imagine what our nation will be like when we are able to correct the needs-driven mindset that’s making young people impatient to be rich and successful. The truth is people don’t need all they think they need. Having discipline flow from inside out makes you patient to think of what you really need, and focus energy on getting it done. Wanting to do too many things at the same time makes people impatient and lose discipline. We can correct this needs-driven mentality as we raise children that have discipline flowing from inside out.

The truth is people don’t need all they think they need.

David Adegboyega

Imagine what driving will be like when, for instance, the traffic light is not working but road users pace themselves and wait for others to have the right of way. Just imagine what message has been passed to the children in the vehicles at that time? The traffic light is like the outside influence to get us disciplined. Imagine policy and law makers with this mindset; the mindset of discipline in working for the common good. Sound character strengths have the potentials to transform nations; let’s celebrate it. Let’s give it the pride of place.

Sound character strengths have the potentials to transform nations; let’s celebrate it. Let’s give it the pride of place.

David Adegboyega

David Adegboyega

Author & Sound Character Coach

+2348032015433

daveadegboyega@gmail.com

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About David Adegboyega

David Adegboyega is an inspiring speaker and role model to young people. His unflinching passion and dedication to seeing generations of responsible youth equipped with sound character is making him build a network of world changers. His mandate in life is National Transformation. He resides in Lagos, Nigeria with his darling wife, Olawale and their two lovely children, Oluwapelumi and Oluwapemi.

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